barry goltenNov 122 min readSelf-centred, selfish or just SelfWe all know what it’s like to be driven by parts of ourselves. When a friend tells me I’m very busy and a little voice inside says...
barry goltenOct 282 min read999 EmergencyAs I described in the previous post, we have Protector parts which work hard to keep our vulnerabilities hidden. The ones which get in...
barry goltenOct 242 min readCall the managerSo how does this IFS stuff actually work in practice? As I explained in the last episode, it’s about creating more space in our systems...
barry goltenOct 212 min readDouble Decker Bus or MiniI’m going to try to explain why I was so blown away by Internal Family Systems (IFS) and why do I think it’s such a helpful and...